I got an encouraging email from a friend the other day that said she was praying for Andrea and me as we continue to learn about parenting. She said something very profound that has challenged me and consumed me since the moment I read it: "Don't raise a person; raise a purpose." I've thought a lot more about this and here are a few things I've thought of:
Raising a person leads to fear. Raising a purpose promotes boldness and courage.
Raising a person limits creativity. Raising a purpose promotes dreaming wildly.
Raising a person is ownership. Raising a purpose is knowing what belongs to the Lord.
Raising a person creates worry. Raising a purpose is to fully trust the Lord.
Raising a person is to define a future. Raising a purpose allows freedom and choice.
Raising a person is selfish. Raising a purpose is to promote God's desires.
Raising a person is defined. Raising a purpose keeps one open to the Holy Spirit.
Raising a person requires plans. Raising a purpose requires following God's direction.
Raising a person can be done alone. Raising a purpose requires the body of Christ.
Raising a person is stressful. Raising a purpose is to be filled with the joy of the Lord.
Raising a person is boring. Raising a purpose is full of anticipation!
Raising a person can be done with luck. Raising a purpose requires prayer.
Raising a person lacks purpose. Raising a purpose promises a fruitful life!
... So, Lord, help Andrea and I (and those around us who love Ellie) to raise more than just a person, but a daughter with a purpose to shake things up in this world! Amen.